Bipolar Dating And Marriage

Managing the Issues Faced with Bipolar Disorder in Dating and Marriage





By Anne Ahira

Relationships can be complex under any circumstances and factoring in the condition of a bipolar disorder makes any type of relationship all the more challenging. Statistics show that almost ninety percent of marriages end in divorce when a spouse has bipolar disorder. The primary reason for this is the behaviors caused by the dramatic mood swings with bipolar disorder.

During the "mania" episodes individuals often times go on wild spending sprees or gamble away the finances as well as sexual behaviors that lead to infidelity. In the depression state, the sufferer withdraws themselves from everyone and loses all interest in any enjoyable activities which is very frustrating to those around them. These behaviors do a lot of damage which is sometimes irreparable to the relationship.  The education and awareness of both parties in regards to this illness can help avoid serious problems which affect the relationship.

Dating and Marriage

It is not essential when you first start dating someone to come right out and tell them that you have this disorder, however, if the relationship progresses, at some point it is important to make them aware of the fact that you have bipolar disorder as well as explain to them exactly how it affects your life and what forms of treatment you are taking to control it. It may also be very beneficial for you to educate them on what they can expect and do to help you during any episodes which you may potentially have.

Marriage and Bipolar Disorder

Having a relationship or being married to someone with bipolar disorder can be very challenging but not impossible to overcome. Following your treatment plan is essential as well as going together with your partner to counseling which focuses on education and how you and your partner can best manage this illness.

If you have a spouse with bipolar disorder, be alert to any changes in their mood which could indicate a problem and ask them how they feel and what you can do to help. You should also have a preset plan in place which is agreeable to both as to what course of action should be taken during any serious episodes of bipolar symptoms.


 

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